One of the things I hear most from my clients is “I don’t know how to be sexy. I don’t know if I’m that sensual woman I want to be.”
My only response: You already are and I’ll show you.
One of the things I like to acknowledge in all people is that if they have a desire to do or be something, it’s because they are all those things. The desire and the reality just need to marry up to one another somewhere on the timeline.
In terms of becoming a sensual woman firmly grounded in her femininity, you are her. You have decide to step into it no matter how awkward the feeling. Surrender to feeling unfamiliar and silly. You have wade through the uncertainty in order to get to the boldness and certainty about who you are.
Beginning this journey requires speaking things over yourself in uncertain moments. You have to reprogram you mind around who you are. Repeat them daily and mean them wholeheartedly.